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Tips for a SEN Friendly Bonfire Night

Bonfire Night

Bonfire night can be lots of fun, but it can also be a great cause of stress for autistic people. It’s normal if you feel a little overwhelmed by
it.

Here are some tips to help.

Research the events
If you want to attend a local firework display or bonfire, it’s useful to know what to expect. Some events might have a “quiet zone” which you could ask to use, where there will be fewer crowds. It’s also useful to know what time fireworks will start so you are ready for them, and not surprised by the sounds and lights of fireworks, whether you choose to watch from home, go to a local event, or hide under a blanket.

 

Coping with sensory issues
Fireworks can be very loud and you may need to wear headphones or earplugs to help cope with this. If the fire is too bright, sunglasses can help with this. Make sure to wear warm and comfy clothes if you are going outside.

 

Distract yourself

If you hate the sounds of fireworks, you might find it useful to watch your favourite TV show or listen to your favourite music a bit louder than normal, to hide the noises you don’t like. This can also help you to feel a bit calmer as you are doing something you like.

 

Have a safe space

If you find fireworks scary, you might want to make an extra cosy space in your home. Think about if you have a good blanket or any sensory items that make you feel safe or a pet you can cuddle.


 

Meet Tom : My Journey

Tom, accesses MAIN’s Adult Post Diagnostic Support Service in County Durham and has been on a journey the past year

 

I am Katherine and I have the pleasure to share Tom’s achievements. When I first spoke with Tom and his Mum in August 2023, Tom was on the start of his new adventure, he was due to start as an intern at Locomotion in Shildon. Tom was extremely nervous about the change to his routine but he was also very excited, as Locomotion is one of his favourite places to visit and the prospect of seeing the places that visitors were not allowed access to excited Tom even more. I think it is fair to say that Tom loves trains. Tom had been given a support worker to help him throughout the day alongside his time at Locomotion, Tom was expected to attend college.

 

The idea of college was very scary for Tom as again this would be a new routine for him, however, the taxi drivers had introduced themselves prior to the start of term and Tom knew the person he was due to share the taxi journey with so this had made things a little easier. All these little adjustments were exactly what Tom needed to help with his anxiety. At the start of the college term Tom was met at the taxi and aided into the college. After some time, Tom was expected to get out of the taxi himself and make his way to the meeting desk in reception, although this made Tom extremely anxious after the first few times he began to feel less so, little by little Tom was gaining his confidence. He even began to send little emails to his grandparents and other friends and family to help him gain even more new skills, this is a massive achievement as Tom admits that he does not really like computers.

 

Tom should be very proud of himself as he has achieved so much in such a short space of time and even though there have been a few bumps in the road, his new routine was beginning to work for him.

 

His time at Locomotion began by the organisers building Tom’s day up slowly, Tom began litter picking and cleaning and tidying the shelves in the gift shop, opportunities for helping on the trains began to appear and with the prospect of helping to polish the brasses and painting the trains came along with helping with the electrics on the trains as well.

 

Tom volunteering in the shop and tidying the stock on shelves Making sure the shop is clean and tidy

Fast forward to May 2024 and Tom has travelled home on the bus from his grandparents, independently. Tom is very proud of this achievement and so are his family. When Tom left school and college Mum had no idea what could be next for Tom, there was very few opportunities available to him at the age of 21 and Mum knew that she only wanted what was best for Tom so when the opportunity of the internship came about Mum could not have been happier. She has watched Tom thrive and grow into the amazing young man he is today. Tom has even started to problem solve for himself. Tom I will never again mention the iron brew in your college bag.

Quote from Tom – The best part of volunteering at Locomotion is that I love being here and being part of something where I can talk to people about trains which are a big part of my life and I can work in the shop and I also get to work on the trains


Tom stood next to a train at ShildonTom standing near his favourite train 

We asked Locomotion for some feedback:-

We’re delighted that Tom has chosen to volunteer at Locomotion. It has been great to see him develop his confidence, skills and experience over his time with us, and we look forward to continuing to work with him into the future. Volunteering is vital to the visitor experience at Locomotion, and anyone wishing to find out more should please contact our volunteer manager.

 

I think we can speak on behalf of a lot of young people and their family’s accessing MAIN, that there are opportunities like those experienced by Tom, and we hope that this story empowers you to start your own journeys.

A note from Mum – “We are extremely proud of Tom, his achievements and the amazing progress he has made so far.  We are very grateful to Houghall and to MAIN for their tremendous support and to Tom’s colleagues at Locomotion, who continue to guide him and inspire him to reach his goals. They have made him feel so welcome and have given him the confidence to succeed.  We hope that Tom’s journey helps others to realise that they can fulfil their ambitions and have a positive and bright future “.

SEN Friendly Halloween

Happy Halloween

Having a Happy Halloween

 Halloween can be lots of fun, but sometimes it can be overwhelming, especially when you hear about what everyone is doing for Halloween. Here are some tips for managing this time of year.

 

Decorate how you like

It’s up to you whether or not to decorate. If you don’t like scary things or pumpkins, that’s totally fine. Lots of decorations can sometimes be stressful to look at. You might prefer paper decorations to flashing lights or pumpkins, or prefer to not decorate at all.

 

Keep Costumes Comfy

If you choose to dress up for Halloween, try to wear something that you like and won’t cause sensory issues. It’s okay for your costume to be built out of what’s already in your wardrobe.

 

No knocking

If you would be upset or bothered by trick or treaters, put a sign up to let people know not to knock on your door. You can make your own sign, look online for one, or even get one from MAIN.

 

There are no rules of what to do

You might hear of lots of people doing Halloween-y things that sound terrible to you, but remember, you can do whatever you want. If you want to go trick or treating, go to a party, or stay home and chill, that’s all okay. If pumpkins aren’t your thing, don’t do them. If you want to ignore Halloween altogether, it’s totally fine.

 

If you are trick or treating

  • Plan your route – it’s easier if you know in advance where you will go so you don’t have to worry or make decisions on the night.
  • Plan some familiar houses (e.g. neighbours you get on with, friends, family ect.)
  • Plan when you can eat the sweets – maybe one or two treats a day instead of all at once, to have something to look forward to.

 

November -Mental Health Workshops

Here to Help: Emotional Recognition & Management Sessions

MAIN are working in collaboration with St John of God to offer workshops to promote understanding of self and learning strategies.

MAIN will be delivering some sessions in October 

Friday 8th November- 10am-12 noon – Understanding Happiness

Friday 15th November- 10am-12 noon- Understanding Anxiety and Anger

Friday 29th November- 10am-12 noon- Understanding Sadness

Drop in Sessions 

Monday 4th November- 12:30-2:30pm

Monday 11th November- 12-1pm

Monday 18th November- 12-2pm

Monday 25th November- 11am-12 noon

All sessions are suitable for anyone aged 14+ years.

Location: MAIN, The Finlay Cooper Centre, Elizabeth Terrace, North Ormesby, Middlesbrough, TS3 6EN

You can access more information, resources and support here


Please contact us if you would like more information and to book on

Spotlight : Key Worker Daisy

We love to celebrate positive feedback at MAIN – Well done Daisy

Daisy, has been working for MAIN since January and is one of our key workers in our Durham Post Diagnostic Support Service

Daisy has received some wonderful feedback recently whilst supporting our clients in our Post diagnostic Support Service

Daisy advocated on behalf of a client to support her to access police services and developed a personalised communication profile.

‘This is so soothing and helpful. Thank you, Daisy’ 

Daisy checked in on a client whose family member is ill in health and referred to Talking therapy

‘Thank you, Daisy for today’s conversation was very much appreciated’ 

Daisy contacted a client before their appointment with another service. Daisy called to let him know what to expect from his appointment.

‘Hello Daisy, thank you very much it will make me less anxious’ 

 


If you live in County Durham and are aged 16+ with a diagnosis of Autism, please see here for more information

Contact us 

Visit from Chris Cooke- Middlesbrough Mayor

MAIN had the pleasure of inviting Chris Cooke, Mayor of Middlesbrough, to our centre

‘Last week I had the pleasure of visiting MAIN’s centre in North Ormesby, which is undergoing an exciting renovation to expand the services they provide for individuals with Autism. It was inspiring to meet CEO Heather Whyman, the dedicated staff, trustee Debbie Sullivan, and one of their valued members, Kieran.

Their motto, ‘Together Raising Smiles’, couldn’t be a better description of the support on offer

MAIN’s mission is all about empowering individuals and families living with Autism, and this renovation will help them do even more. This centre will be a safe, supportive space where young people can continue to develop life skills, rather than falling through the gaps in support provision as they transition to adulthood.

Heather Whyman, CEO said ‘It was so lovely to welcome Chris and Ben to MAIN last week and to spend some time discussing our current and future plans; MAIN are in the process of seeing our new ‘Pathways to Independence Centre’ opened by the end of this year, which will offer practical and educational support in a safe and secure environment for our young people to develop additional life-skills.’

It was clear from talking to Heather and the team that their passion and experience make a real difference in the lives of those they support. They know first hand the challenges that come with Autism, but they also know how to empower others to overcome them, always offering advice, workshops, and community connections. A huge thank you to MAIN for all the incredible work they do in Middlesbrough, and I can’t wait to see the positive impact of their new centre once it opens later this year!’

 


This is a post from Chris Cooke

Disability Pride Month: Thank You to our MAIN Family

Individuals accessing MAIN’s Adult Group, Inbetweeners and Wednesday Tween and Teens raised money for MAIN

Back in July, MAIN promoted awareness of Disability Pride month. Disability Pride is celebrating what makes everyone different and to recognise the achievements and identities of people with disabilities. Our groups went for sponsored walks in aid of MAIN and raised a total of £971.40

Each group celebrated by attending Level X in club, the majority of the money went to sensory equipment and will go towards our Big Build for the second activity room.

 


Thank you again everyone 

Inclusion Week 2024

It’s National Inclusion week and this years theme is ‘impact matters’ which is looking to ‘reignite and energise the positive impact of inclusion’

National inclusion week was established in 2011 by Inclusive employers looking to build inclusive workplaces.
The Buckland Review of Autism employment was released earlier this year and found that just 3 in 10 autistic adults are in employment compared to just 5 in 10 for all disabled people and 8 in 10 for non-disabled people.
Our team in Durham can offer support around reasonable adjustments for the workplace and can aid communication with employers to work to make workplaces, education settings and volunteering placements more inclusive for autistic individuals.
We can also refer and signpost to Hiyed, Durham works and Durham enable who support people who are looking to get into work, we are working on building closer working relationships to enable us to better support our clients who are in work or looking to get into work, whether by applying for jobs, furthering education or volunteering.

 


Please email us  or call 0191 3008556 for more information

Mental Health Workshops

Here to Help: Emotional Recognition & Management Sessions

MAIN are working in collaboration with St John of God to offer workshops to promote understanding of self and learning strategies.

MAIN will be delivering some sessions in October 

Monday 7th October 11am-1pm : Understanding Sadness

Friday 18th October 1am-12pm: Promoting Joy

Monday 21st October 10am-12pm: Understanding Anger

Drop in Sessions 

Friday 4th October 12:30pm-2:30pm: Understanding Yourself

Friday 11th October 12pm-2pm: Accessing Mental Health Support

Monday 14th October 12pm-2pm: Promoting Joy

Monday 30th October 10am-12pm: Increasing Hope (Online via Microsoft Teams)

All sessions are suitable for anyone aged 14+ years.

Location: MAIN, The Finlay Cooper Centre, Elizabeth Terrace, North Ormesby, Middlesbrough, TS3 6EN

You can access more information, resources and support here


Please contact us if you would like more information and to book on

Mental Health Awareness Day-10th October 2024

Join MAIN for our Mental Health Walk

staff walking out of a carpark in the wet weather

Update 11.10.24 – MAIN’s staff went on a shorter walk around North Ormesby due to the bad weather

We would love to see parents/carers join us for our Mental Health lunch walk for Mental Health Awareness Day.  We will be leaving at 11:30am, TS3 6EN, to Albert Park and back. Let’s get walking and chatting!

Refreshments on return.