Meet Tom : My Journey

Tom, accesses MAIN’s Adult Post Diagnostic Support Service in County Durham and has been on a journey the past year

 

I am Katherine and I have the pleasure to share Tom’s achievements. When I first spoke with Tom and his Mum in August 2023, Tom was on the start of his new adventure, he was due to start as an intern at Locomotion in Shildon. Tom was extremely nervous about the change to his routine but he was also very excited, as Locomotion is one of his favourite places to visit and the prospect of seeing the places that visitors were not allowed access to excited Tom even more. I think it is fair to say that Tom loves trains. Tom had been given a support worker to help him throughout the day alongside his time at Locomotion, Tom was expected to attend college.

 

The idea of college was very scary for Tom as again this would be a new routine for him, however, the taxi drivers had introduced themselves prior to the start of term and Tom knew the person he was due to share the taxi journey with so this had made things a little easier. All these little adjustments were exactly what Tom needed to help with his anxiety. At the start of the college term Tom was met at the taxi and aided into the college. After some time, Tom was expected to get out of the taxi himself and make his way to the meeting desk in reception, although this made Tom extremely anxious after the first few times he began to feel less so, little by little Tom was gaining his confidence. He even began to send little emails to his grandparents and other friends and family to help him gain even more new skills, this is a massive achievement as Tom admits that he does not really like computers.

 

Tom should be very proud of himself as he has achieved so much in such a short space of time and even though there have been a few bumps in the road, his new routine was beginning to work for him.

 

His time at Locomotion began by the organisers building Tom’s day up slowly, Tom began litter picking and cleaning and tidying the shelves in the gift shop, opportunities for helping on the trains began to appear and with the prospect of helping to polish the brasses and painting the trains came along with helping with the electrics on the trains as well.

 

Tom volunteering in the shop and tidying the stock on shelves Making sure the shop is clean and tidy

Fast forward to May 2024 and Tom has travelled home on the bus from his grandparents, independently. Tom is very proud of this achievement and so are his family. When Tom left school and college Mum had no idea what could be next for Tom, there was very few opportunities available to him at the age of 21 and Mum knew that she only wanted what was best for Tom so when the opportunity of the internship came about Mum could not have been happier. She has watched Tom thrive and grow into the amazing young man he is today. Tom has even started to problem solve for himself. Tom I will never again mention the iron brew in your college bag.

Quote from Tom – The best part of volunteering at Locomotion is that I love being here and being part of something where I can talk to people about trains which are a big part of my life and I can work in the shop and I also get to work on the trains


Tom stood next to a train at ShildonTom standing near his favourite train 

We asked Locomotion for some feedback:-

We’re delighted that Tom has chosen to volunteer at Locomotion. It has been great to see him develop his confidence, skills and experience over his time with us, and we look forward to continuing to work with him into the future. Volunteering is vital to the visitor experience at Locomotion, and anyone wishing to find out more should please contact our volunteer manager.

 

I think we can speak on behalf of a lot of young people and their family’s accessing MAIN, that there are opportunities like those experienced by Tom, and we hope that this story empowers you to start your own journeys.

A note from Mum – “We are extremely proud of Tom, his achievements and the amazing progress he has made so far.  We are very grateful to Houghall and to MAIN for their tremendous support and to Tom’s colleagues at Locomotion, who continue to guide him and inspire him to reach his goals. They have made him feel so welcome and have given him the confidence to succeed.  We hope that Tom’s journey helps others to realise that they can fulfil their ambitions and have a positive and bright future “.

SEN Friendly Halloween

Happy Halloween

Having a Happy Halloween

 Halloween can be lots of fun, but sometimes it can be overwhelming, especially when you hear about what everyone is doing for Halloween. Here are some tips for managing this time of year.

 

Decorate how you like

It’s up to you whether or not to decorate. If you don’t like scary things or pumpkins, that’s totally fine. Lots of decorations can sometimes be stressful to look at. You might prefer paper decorations to flashing lights or pumpkins, or prefer to not decorate at all.

 

Keep Costumes Comfy

If you choose to dress up for Halloween, try to wear something that you like and won’t cause sensory issues. It’s okay for your costume to be built out of what’s already in your wardrobe.

 

No knocking

If you would be upset or bothered by trick or treaters, put a sign up to let people know not to knock on your door. You can make your own sign, look online for one, or even get one from MAIN.

 

There are no rules of what to do

You might hear of lots of people doing Halloween-y things that sound terrible to you, but remember, you can do whatever you want. If you want to go trick or treating, go to a party, or stay home and chill, that’s all okay. If pumpkins aren’t your thing, don’t do them. If you want to ignore Halloween altogether, it’s totally fine.

 

If you are trick or treating

  • Plan your route – it’s easier if you know in advance where you will go so you don’t have to worry or make decisions on the night.
  • Plan some familiar houses (e.g. neighbours you get on with, friends, family ect.)
  • Plan when you can eat the sweets – maybe one or two treats a day instead of all at once, to have something to look forward to.

 

November -Mental Health Workshops

Here to Help: Emotional Recognition & Management Sessions

MAIN are working in collaboration with St John of God to offer workshops to promote understanding of self and learning strategies.

MAIN will be delivering some sessions in October 

Friday 8th November- 10am-12 noon – Understanding Happiness

Friday 15th November- 10am-12 noon- Understanding Anxiety and Anger

Friday 29th November- 10am-12 noon- Understanding Sadness

Drop in Sessions 

Monday 4th November- 12:30-2:30pm

Monday 11th November- 12-1pm

Monday 18th November- 12-2pm

Monday 25th November- 11am-12 noon

All sessions are suitable for anyone aged 14+ years.

Location: MAIN, The Finlay Cooper Centre, Elizabeth Terrace, North Ormesby, Middlesbrough, TS3 6EN

You can access more information, resources and support here


Please contact us if you would like more information and to book on

Fundraising at MAIN: Our Christmas Fayre

We are holding a Christmas Fayre- Come and join us

MAIN will be holding a Christmas Fayre on 23rd November at 2pm-4pm at MAIN, The Finlay Cooper Centre, Elizabeth Terrace, North Ormesby, TS3 6EN

Free entry- We will have refreshments, tombola, our shop stall, lollipop lucky dip and more

Let’s get into the Christmas spirit – all money raised will go towards our renovations in our centre

Spotlight : Key Worker Daisy

We love to celebrate positive feedback at MAIN – Well done Daisy

Daisy, has been working for MAIN since January and is one of our key workers in our Durham Post Diagnostic Support Service

Daisy has received some wonderful feedback recently whilst supporting our clients in our Post diagnostic Support Service

Daisy advocated on behalf of a client to support her to access police services and developed a personalised communication profile.

‘This is so soothing and helpful. Thank you, Daisy’ 

Daisy checked in on a client whose family member is ill in health and referred to Talking therapy

‘Thank you, Daisy for today’s conversation was very much appreciated’ 

Daisy contacted a client before their appointment with another service. Daisy called to let him know what to expect from his appointment.

‘Hello Daisy, thank you very much it will make me less anxious’ 

 


If you live in County Durham and are aged 16+ with a diagnosis of Autism, please see here for more information

Contact us 

Join our team- We are looking for volunteers!

We launching a new volunteering programme at MAIN

We are launching a new volunteer programme. This will be a 6 month cohort of volunteering in multiple roles.
Applications are open 5th December and close on the 19th December 2024.
Applications will be reviewed and volunteering will start in January and reviewed in June.
We are looking for anyone, 18+ years who would like to offer their time to support our charity.
Some roles are
  • Administrator
  • Gardening
  • Handy person
  • Social media/Marketing
  • Outreach role in our clubs
  • Activity or events planner
If you wish to learn more please contact us on 01642 608012 or email the link below
We have vacancies in Middlesbrough, County Durham and Redcar & Cleveland

Send us your CV today

Recycle Week at MAIN 14th-20th October 2024

It’s recycle week and MAIN have got onboard

photos of items being recycled

MAIN donated some game consoles and computer equipment to FurbdIT a great charity working to support the third sector and local people with IT equipment and games consoles at reduced rates.

 


 

Join our team- We are hiring!

We are Hiring !

We are looking for caring and enthusiastic people to join our PA & Outreach team.
If you wish to learn more come join us at our upcoming Recruitment event on 4th November, 10am-11:30am
This event will be at MAIN, The Finlay Cooper Centre, North Ormesby, Middlesbrough, TS3 6EN

Send us your CV today

Visit from Chris Cooke- Middlesbrough Mayor

MAIN had the pleasure of inviting Chris Cooke, Mayor of Middlesbrough, to our centre

‘Last week I had the pleasure of visiting MAIN’s centre in North Ormesby, which is undergoing an exciting renovation to expand the services they provide for individuals with Autism. It was inspiring to meet CEO Heather Whyman, the dedicated staff, trustee Debbie Sullivan, and one of their valued members, Kieran.

Their motto, ‘Together Raising Smiles’, couldn’t be a better description of the support on offer

MAIN’s mission is all about empowering individuals and families living with Autism, and this renovation will help them do even more. This centre will be a safe, supportive space where young people can continue to develop life skills, rather than falling through the gaps in support provision as they transition to adulthood.

Heather Whyman, CEO said ‘It was so lovely to welcome Chris and Ben to MAIN last week and to spend some time discussing our current and future plans; MAIN are in the process of seeing our new ‘Pathways to Independence Centre’ opened by the end of this year, which will offer practical and educational support in a safe and secure environment for our young people to develop additional life-skills.’

It was clear from talking to Heather and the team that their passion and experience make a real difference in the lives of those they support. They know first hand the challenges that come with Autism, but they also know how to empower others to overcome them, always offering advice, workshops, and community connections. A huge thank you to MAIN for all the incredible work they do in Middlesbrough, and I can’t wait to see the positive impact of their new centre once it opens later this year!’

 


This is a post from Chris Cooke

Volunteering at MAIN- Thank You Verity

Verity volunteered her time to support MAIN whilst visiting the UK

Verity is the daughter of one of MAIN’s staff and offered to volunteer some time at MAIN. Verity is studying in her home country, Nigeria, and whilst visiting her Mum in the UK wanted to give back to the local community.

Verity was a great help and supported our team with administrative tasks and gained experience of a UK work environment

Thank you Verity

 


If you are interested in volunteering at MAIN please get in touch by emailing us or calling on 01642 608012